Top 10 Things Our Family Learned From the 2012 EcoChallenge

{Editor’s Note: this is the final day of the 15-day EcoChallenge through the Northwest Earth Institute. You can read about the kickoff here.}

  1. Being outside makes us feel good. I’d forgotten how much since I don’t ride my bike to work anymore. (My husband continues to bike to work daily, even in downpours. He’s my alternative transportation hero!) Meanwhile I’ve gotten used to hopping into a warm car, getting pissed at the bad driver in front of me, and becoming oblivious to the natural world around me. These past two weeks, I’ve felt more connected to nature whether it’s feeling the wind in my ears as I bike to zumba class or inhaling the damp earth and noticing leaves drift downward from their summer perches as I walk in the rain to a nearby meeting. It feels great.
  2. Parts of items can be recycled. Like the cardboard pieces from new toy packaging… if I just take the time to separate them from the non-recyclable plastic bits. And aluminum yogurt lids that just need a quick rinse. And juice boxes minus the straw. I slowed down these past weeks to inspect items I usually toss quickly into the trash for any salvageable parts. Sofie rescued the plastic covers that came with our electric toothbrush heads – for what purpose, I don’t know, but I’m thrilled she got caught up in the reuse and repurpose theme.
  3. Costume swaps – who knew? I’m so glad I became aware of National Costume Swap Day and our neighborhood’s local swap. We traded in an outgrown ballet outfit for some cat pieces (jaguar tail and black furry nose) that inspired Sofie. Halloween costume for 2013? Done.
  4. Halloween costumes for Mom can be fun too. Taking the outfit to the streets might be a different matter altogether, but scavenging the house for my Super EcoMom wardrobe turned into a fun family project that also showed Sofie how easy a costume can be assembled from stuff right under our noses.
  5. Turning computers off at night is pretty darn easy. My husband discovered this in his quest to be more energy efficient. (He remembered to turn lights off more frequently too!) When I asked if he’d continue this after the EcoChallenge, he said it seemed easy enough. And it’s saving us $100 per year! Depending on our mood, that’s either money toward a new energy-efficient front door or a lot of organic wine.

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    Endangered species of America: bobcat, northern right whale,
    grey wolf, monarch butterfly, jaguar and sea turtle.

  6. Sustainable birthday parties aren’t much more effort than disposable ones. (And they cost less.) Yes, I found myself washing dishes between pizza and cake at Sofie’s birthday party yesterday, but it didn’t take long, I had friends to chat with, and I felt better about a trashcan devoid of paper plates and napkins (the kids used cloth). The weather held for us to have some of the party outside, which worked well with Sofie’s “Save The Wild Animals” theme. Some parents were impressed with my dedication to greenness, which I must admit may not have been as strong had my daughter’s party fallen outside of the EcoChallenge. Having done it though, I’m more likely to do it again next year.
  7. Being outside makes us feel good. This one’s important enough to be on here twice. Just inhaling the scents of nature calms me, and it does something to Sofie too. She often goes outside to swing and always comes back in in a better mood. I should really take advantage of my working-from-home status much more often. There’s no reason I can’t sit in the backyard with my laptop and listen to the birds instead of Pitbull.
  8. A quality front-loading clothes washer is super quiet. So quiet that I have not yet heard the song that supposedly signals the end of the cycle. Except for the water pipes pumping water into the machine at the onset (it’s apparently a more efficient way of filling the machine with water), I forget the washer is on. Our new LG holds a lot of clothes, and they come out practically dry in comparison with the top loaders of my past. So far, I am glad we spent the extra money for this purchase.
  9. Sofie seems to prefer navy showers. We did this one morning when I was having trouble convincing her to take a bath. She agreed once I said: “no hair, you can stand outside the tub and it will be super quick.” And it was. She got clean, and I didn’t have to fill a tub with water. Hooray for my eco-daughter.
  10. I could be a vegetarian (almost). A lacto-ovo vegetarian, that is, because we still ate eggs and dairy. My body has felt really good, and I might attribute that to being on the fifth day of our vegetarian week (see two recipes below). I have more energy and feel less bloated and achy. I had fun developing a veggie menu and really enjoyed eating the meals. I never left the table feeling hungry, which is something I envisioned, as if I needed meat to really fill me up.

Admittedly, at this point, I am longing for a good burger or my bacon, beer and Brussels sprout soup. But I also feel like I can reintroduce meat slowly, and I aim to maintain a veggie menu several days per week.

Doing this EcoChallenge as a family was a fun effort in working together to go green. Check out this list of 30 blogs that provide ideas on more ways you can reduce your family carbon footprint. The list includes one California family who aims for zero waste. Over a six-month period, they created only a handful of trash. Now that’s impressive!

Vegetarian Recipes:

TOMATO, BARLEY AND PECORINO SOUP
from “The Italian Slow Cooker” by Michele Scicolone

Yummy Italian recipes for your slow cooker.

  • 1 medium onion, finely chopped
  • 2 Tb olive oil
  • 32 oz. vegetable broth
  • 1 ½ cups water
  • 1 cup pearl barley, rinsed and picked over
  • 1 can diced tomatoes
  • 2 celery ribs, finely chopped
  • 2 Tb chopped herb (optional — parsley, cilantro or basil)
  • 1 cup diced Pecorino Romano cheese
  • Salt and pepper
  1. In a medium skillet, cook the onion in olive oil over medium heat, stirring occasionally, until tender but not browned, about 10 minutes. If onion starts to color, add some water and lower heat slightly. Scrape onion into a large slow cooker.
  2. Add broth, water, barley, tomatoes and celery. Cover and cook in slow cooker for 3 hours on low or until the barley is tender and soup is thick.
  3. Add salt and pepper to taste. Stir in cheese and chopped herb (optional). Serve hot. Serves 6

PASTA AND CHICKPEAS (with plenty of parsley and garlic)
from “Vegetarian Suppers from Deborah Madison’s Kitchen” by Deborah Madison

  • 1 Tb olive oil
  • ½ large onion
  • a few pinches of hot red pepper flakes
  • 1 ½ cups cooked chickpeas or 1 15-ounce can, liquid reserved
  • 1 big bunch of flat-leaf parsley, leaves stripped from the stems
  • 3 plump garlic cloves
  • small handful of sage leaves
  • sae salt and ground black pepper
  • ¾ pound whole wheat pasta shells
  • freshly grated Parmesan
  1. Bring a large pot of water to a boil for pasta.
  2. Heat the oil in a wide skillet and add onion and pepper flakes. Cook for a few minutes, then add chickpeas. Chop parsley, garlic and sage together, then toss a third of it into the pan. Season well with salt and pepper, add a little water or chickpea broth to the pan, and cook slowly, adding more liquid as it cooks away.
  3. Cook the pasta. When done, drain and toss it with the chickpeas, the rest of the parsley mixture and extra olive oil to taste. Grate some parmesan cheese over the top and serve with additional pepper flakes. Serves 4

Children’s Birthday Parties: Think Green, Think Theme

{Editor’s Note: this is Day 9 of the EcoChallenge through the Northwest Earth Institute. You can read about the kickoff here.}

With October comes my daughter’s birthday – always a highlight for her and an eco challenge for me. I struggle with the amount of paper products and waste that often accompanies kids’ birthdays not to mention the focus on presents. (See my post, Children’s Birthday Parties are a Scam!) Yet I don’t want to deprive Sofie of a good birthday celebration.

I told her we’d have a party at home for six friends (I’ve read that limiting the number of guests to the child’s age is a good rule of thumb). Then I braced myself for the fairy/princess/superhero theme my daughter might choose. But she surprised me this summer when she saw me reading the Defenders of Wildlife member newsletter. She asked about the animals on the pages and I explained what ‘endangered’ meant. Sofie has always loved animals (so much that she refuses to root for Team Blake on “The Voice since discovering that he hunts).

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Her response to the adorable animals in my newsletter: “I wish I could help them, Mommy.” Bingo. Her desire evolved into the theme for her sixth birthday. Now my job was to make it fun and interesting and kind of green. I loved the challenge.

Sofie’s “Save the Wild Animals” party will introduce kids to six threatened species of America including the gray wolf, the sea turtle and the northern spotted owl. Guests will have their faces painted like one of the animals and wear a card that reveals a few creature facts. (e.g.: The northern right whale is a slow swimmer at about 6 miles per hour.) Then the kids will go on a treasure hunt of animal-related clues, working together to unearth the treasure while Mom makes cheese pizzas. (Spoiler alert! Sample clue: Butterflies use their feet to taste their food. Take off your socks and use only your toes to capture stones and put them into the box. When the box is filled with at least 30 stones, you’ll receive the next clue.) If there’s time left over, there’s always graveyard hide-n-seek in the cemetery across the street.

I aim to keep the party green by sending email invitations; using our dinnerware and utensils instead of paper and plastic (keeping numbers low makes this easy to do); finding reusable bags for party favors; and decorating naturally (mums and pumpkins).

And we circle back to Sofie’s desire to help the animals by making a donation to Defenders of Wildlife (a symbolic jaguar adoption) in the names of her guests. (Certificates printed on scrap paper will be part of the goody bags.)

That is my favorite part. That the party’s theme gives thought to ecology and our footprint on this earth, that Sofie has an awareness of such things and that it makes the birthday about more than just the gifts she’ll receive – although, undoubtedly, that is still her favorite part. Use themes to make the idea of going green more fun.

 

In our family’s progress in the EcoChallenge, my husband has turned off his computer every night since Day 3 (I’m excited about this becoming a natural habit), Sofie is still committed to not using tissues and I am 5 for 5 in biking/walking within two miles of home. We also donated an old costume to our neighborhood’s local Halloween Costume Swap. In return we received a ticket to choose a costume next weekend. Hopefully we’ll find a treasure for Sofie to wear next year.

Next on the EcoChallenge agenda: going meatless for a week. We’ve had meatless dinners, even used to do it regularly for awhile (see my post, Meatless Thursdays), but, again, we got lazy. This time I figure if I am high, I’ll accomplish more. So I’m off to plan a menu…

Are you going green with your family? What’s your biggest eco challenge?

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Children’s Birthday Parties are a Scam!

These events get parents to fork over numerous dollars on the latest toys and carve out 2-3 hours of precious weekend time. Why? So their own child can run wild, get a sugar high and beg for the same experience when her own birthday rolls around. The children love it, the parents buy into it, and I want to know: who’s responsible for this?

When I was a kid, birthday parties were just another reason to hang out with relatives in a backyard cookout. Sometimes I could invite a friend. I did receive gifts—usually clothes—but nothing special. Aunts and uncles smiled, remarked how big I was getting and disappeared for a drink refill. My cousins and I fueled up on soda and ran around the yard until it was time for the best part—the cake.

Nowadays, the preschool scene is an endless round of birthday parties, meeting the same kids and parents at the same gym, zoo or Chuck E. Cheese’s. And the gifts range from ridiculous (makeup sets for four-year-olds) to lavish (ensembles of the most popular toy and the latest award-winning game complete with matching bag). They are decorated like wedding cakes and often accompanied by flowers bouquets or talking cards. One thing hasn’t changed, however. The kids still run around and look forward to cake.

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Disney-themed party by Pop Culture Geek/Flickr

When Sofie was three, we officially entered the birthday party circuit. I remember her first friend’s party where I gaped at mothers arriving with giant balloon displays and three-tiered gifts wrapped to shiny perfection. It made my simple book encased in Sofie’s artwork quite drab in comparison. At the time, I still subscribed to the “less is more” philosophy and tried to keep Sofie impervious to the world of Licensed Plastic Playthings.

For her own third birthday —attempting to honor her princess obsession in a different way—I talked her into guest donations to one of Princess Diana’s favorite charities. This was in lieu of gifts. She didn’t mind, as long as there was cake. Once she turned four, she had completed a year of the party circuit and knew she was getting gypped.

I believe birthdays should be fun, but exactly when did they become so overblown? Often, that overblown quality goes straight to cookie cutter. I swear I’ve seen the same princess doll opened at no less than three parties. There’s nothing to ooh and ah about anymore. For the record, I do not like this tradition of opening gifts in front of everyone—thankfully, this seems passé in my party circuit. An eco-mother’s uniquely recycled giftwrap and educational book will never match the latest princess-fairy-superhero toy in all its plastic glory.

And what is my child learning from all this? Birthdays are about presents? Newer and bigger is better? The comparisons kill me. “Savannah got Diva Barbie for her birthday, so I want it too.” “Aiden invited the whole class to his party – why can’t I?”

Mostly because I refuse to shell out the big bucks that Aiden’s mom did. Party space rental prices are obscene (starting at $200 for just half the class) and that usually does not include food, decorations and favors. Attending these parties really adds up too. A year’s worth of friends’ birthday gifts can equal an airplane ticket (a cheap domestic flight on Southwest, but still).

Sofie and her friend Thomas celebrate their
5th birthdays with a dance party
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I must admit I sometimes succumb to the madness. I’ve given popular plastic toys wrapped in non-biodegradable paper. We threw Sofie a big fifth birthday bash at which she received piles of glossy gifts.

Yet, when I come across examples of kids thinking beyond the typical birthday party, I make a point to show it to my daughter. Kids who request charity donations or center their party around helping someone in need. And guess what? Sofie noticed my Defenders of Wildlife magazine one day and was inspired to have a Save-the-Wild-Animals themed party for her next birthday (still five months away). How cool is that? She still wants gifts, of course, but she also wants to tie in saving animals. I can work with that.

I wish birthday party moms could get together and agree to ending the overblown party cycle. Change it up a bit. Agree to eco-friendly party themes, a $10 gift limit or some fun theme like “gifts that rhyme with your child’s name.” If the cake is the best part, why not focus on that? Have each guest bring a cake or throw a cake-baking party or put the doll inside the cake (that caused a sensation at one girl’s party).

Enough of the business of children’s birthday parties! Let us return to the days of the home party: limited guest lists, space for running, drinks for the parents and lots of cake.

A Princess Birthday Party with Meaning

Sofie had her birthday Fairy Princess Tea Party last weekend, which turned out really well. It was my spin on my three-year-old’s current obsession with princesses —I didn’t want to do it Disney style. (Read my previous post on thoughts behind children’s birthday parties.)

The best part was how the invited families really got into the donation idea — we asked for donations toward pediatric AIDS in lieu of birthday gifts and in honor of Princess Diana, since the girls were learning about real-life princesses. Everyone donated, with some families saying it inspired them for their kid’s birthday.

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I’m not sure how much Sofie understood, but she was excited to learn that Diana helped sick children and that her friends could too. This being her first birthday with friends, she didn’t really expect presents.

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Sofie’s birthday book of real-life princesses

The party favor was a book I made that focused on five real-life princesses, from Queen Victoria who helped build an empire to Princess Ayesha of India who started a school for girls. I also gave each of the girls a pair of fairy wings.

Aside from the good cause, the donations meant we had no gift wrap, no product packaging and no fights over new toys! I’m thinking this is definitely the way to go for Christmas too.

Eco-Friendly Choices for Children’s Birthdays

With Sofie’s third birthday approaching, we’re hearing lots of talk from our daughter about cake and parties. Big change from the last two years when she hardly knew what a birthday was. Now she’s been indoctrinated through invitations to friends’ parties where cake, ice cream and presents are the norm. This is not what we want our norm to be, but how do we tell her this without crushing her?

My husband would like to honor Sofie’s birthday by taking a trip down memory lane: telling her our stories, sharing video, photos and poems from her birth. I like that. It’s personal; it speaks to the real meaning behind a birthday. But what about the fun factor?

I also wondered how other countries celebrate birthdays and discovered a range of traditions. Unfortunately, the ones relating to Sofie’s ancestry (Filipino, Irish, Italian and Scottish) involve either physical duress (bumps, smacks and ear pulls) or trips to Mass. Hardly inspiring.

So, why do we celebrate birthdays anyway? It seems our ancestors were a highly superstitious bunch, believing themselves to be hunted by evil spirits, particularly when undergoing a life change such as turning a year older. Having a party with loud singing and raucous friends could keep the evil spirits at bay. And while people didn’t routinely bring presents, it was extra fortuitous for the birthday honoree if they did.

Now, we don’t believe in evil spirits, but we do love a party! So I think we can meet Sofie’s desire for one, on a much smaller scale. I once read that the child’s age should determine the number of guests (i.e.: invite 3 kids for the third birthday), which seems manageable to me. Throw in a handful of family and close adult friends and voila!

However, I will be as eco-conscious as possible about this. Electronic invitations, reusable dishware, cloth napkins, and no disposable decorations. Nature can be our décor as the kids enjoy Sofie’s outdoor swing set, and adults mingle with drinks and music. Perhaps we’ll make a project of creating a reusable birthday banner from cloth. (check out these other green décor ideas.)

And then we come to the presents. Sofie has plenty of toys, plenty of plastic, and we’re trying to rail against the rampant consumerism of such holidays. No need to add more to our closets, much less the landfills.

Now might be the time to build in some lessons on social justice. Teach Sofie that so many kids in the world have so little compared to her; encourage her to give to them (guests can donate to a cause in lieu of gifts). She’s already really good at understanding the concept of “too much” stuff. When we picked up a princess scooter at a yard sale, she generously offered to give her old bike to the neighbor boy. And she helped me go through her old toys and videos, selecting which ones to give to her baby cousin since Sofie has outgrown them.

Ooh, but my creative juices are flowing now. I want to tie this party together with a theme, and, with my daughter’s current princess obsession, maybe I can introduce Sofie and her friends to some real life princesses such as Princess Diana — who was devoted to causes like AIDS awareness and removing buried land mines in third world countries. Guests could donate to an AIDS organization. The kids can dress up as princesses and listen to one of many Princess Di children’s stories I’ve found at the library. Who says green can’t be fun?

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